Women In Islam by Nash Ar-Rawy

Women In Islam by Nash Ar-Rawy

No man and no women, who is more superior than the other. The prophet said There's no different amongst you , eventhough you are Arabs except for those who are takwa! (rejoin good deeds and abstain from evil deeds) In the eyes of the Almighty immaterial of a man or a woman , HE sees who is more in 'takwa'as portrayed by Fatimah , the prophet's daughter, Aaishah, the prophet 's wife and Aaishah; Pharoah 's wife and Mashitah being Pharoah's wife hair-dresser .
All mothers(surely women) from 9 months of hardships and labour when deliver babies; are all fantastic women and most honoured in Islam. During pre-Islamic era ( Paganism or Jahiliyyah) women were only made as slaves and sex objects and belly dances; their life is just to fulfil pagan men's lusts , that's all , They 've got no say at all and new born female babies were buried alife!!!
But, the Almighty has sent down prophet Muhammad peace be upon him to liberate the women and up-lifted them with great honour. No father could force the daughter to marry any one but with prior consent of the woman(daughter) Freedom of educations and professions as equal as man , If they 're being ill-treated, they could always report it to the “kadi” ( Religious Council ) and could ask for justice such as fasah( divorce due to ill-treatment or irresponsible acts of the husband.) They 're in the higher ranking and respected as mothers,sisters,grandmothers, teachers, doctors, lawyers , engineers, scientists, ect.
What ever high post she holds; at home, she is the WIFE to the husband not as the 'Premier" of the house. Because otherwise, it would end up in chaos for there're two captains in a ship, rite!.A wife may gives ideas but final decision must be made by one person collectivelydiscussed with the wife and children.
For a jemaah prayer is a big embarresment if a lady Imam of a jemaah prayer suddenly stops just 'because of the period comes. So, Islam protects the reputation and the pride of a women not to be mocked at.
Nowadays, if you take a stroll by the beach, 99 % of women are in bikinis! rite! Some even dare to be naked taking 'sun-bath" . For men d “aurah” is only between the knee and the navel(that place is hidden and protected but now to be equal as man; girls are exposing all . just one patch covered up n one patch covered down.
Even with just a short-pan;a man fells shy in front of women but girls now have gone too far with their liberations plights 've forgotten their reputations; a sort of Modern Paganism of Moden Jahiliyyah!
Whererest with the “aurah” closed as in the prayers except for the face and palms ; they are respected and honored. No man could make them as objects of fun, mockery and sex objects. These attitudes of shamless girls with the bikinis don’t realise that they are calling and , inviting rapes to occur.
As for marrying 4 wives. God said in surah Nisa" ayat 3 and ayat 129: "You will never be able to perform perfect justice between wives, eventhouigh it is your ardent desire"(Nisa: ayat 129) and
"If you fear that you would not be able to deal it justly............then MARRY ONLY ONE( even though you may marry 2, 3 or 4) That will be nearer to prevent you from. doing injustice" Unless if the wife is barren and asks the husband to marry another one having his own siblings or doctor's advice not safe if pregnant, or during the time of war many women became widows .
And the wife asks the husband to save the widows and their small kids and babies. Or the wife could not cope up with the husband extra-ordinary intercourse needs and to avoid the hubby from committing zinah/adultery . The wife asks the husband to marry another one. Or the wife having sexual problems of the above said situations Thewife should consider and face the facts of life while polygamy is permited in Islam i.e to avoid sins. But in a normal case, or normal situation no man can give justice to more than one wife and for that matter even with one wife , some husbands are irresponsible : drunketh, gambler, womanizer , no food at home , money spent on gamblings and liqour.
And in some instances , the husband is so loving and responsible to two wives and better than some monogamy cases. So, it's more on an individual capacity and subjective . Could not be taken wholesale!
But , nevertheless, one wife is the best because no husband could give justice to more than a single spouse as the Almighty said . So. it's more on the mutual understanding and the capacity of both ; helps each other . considerate and be amicable and the situation differs from each women to another.Merchants and preachers(daie) travel from one continent to another such as the Sayyeds(descendents of the prophet) and Gugeratees traders (From. India.; Indian Muslims) and Arabs traders spread-out Islam to the Malay Achiepelogo through marriages with the locals and having wife in their country of origin as well. And they lived happily ever after .
So , in certain cases it's quite subjective. Ofcourse , they 're very pious , sincere , honest and responsible and helping hands. But, the situation nowadays, one should be grateful if the husband is a five time prayer, loving, caring, fasting, not a gambler and not a womenizer is good enough!. Many are hypocrites! and sinners!
Lastly why women could not marry four as man does! Where is equality! Initially if women could marry more than one husband as man is. Then, we 're back to paganism time or jahiliyyah ; where one women could be for a sex object of many men . The question is if she's pregnant after four men slept with her. Then, the siblings will bear whose name as the father! Thus! women are protected and honoured in Islam. Thanks to the Almighty and his messenger as savier of women as ordained in d Last Testament!(Al -Qur;an) and to manknd and the world being blessed by Him with Islam ( “ Rahmatan lil ‘Alameen’ ).
Peace! Loves! Rejoice!(Wassalam)
By: Nash Ar-Rawy/14.04.12
From: nasharrawy.blogspot.com FOR: malaysiatimes.my/mediaperak.com

Arrawy's Articles: 01(Women In Islam)

i) No man and No women, who is more superior than d other! dear! D prophet said There's no different amongst u , eventhough u're Arabs except 4 takwa! (rejoin good deeds n abstain from evil deeds) In d eyes of God immaterial of man or woman , HE sees who is more in 'takwa' ii) Fatimah , d prophet's daughter, aaishah, d prophet 's wife n aaishah Pharoah 's wife, mashitah - pharoah's wife hair-dresser and all mothers(surely women) from 9 months of hardship n labour on delivered baby; thery 're all fantastic an most honoured by Islam. During pre-Islam ( Paganism or Jahiliyyah) women were only made as slaves n sex objects n bellies dances ; their life is just 2 fulfil pagans men's lusts , that's all , They 've got no say at all and new born female babies were buried alife!!!
But, God has sent down d prophets 2 liberate d women n up-lifted them with great honour. No father could force d daughter 2 marry any one but with prior consent of d woman(daughter) Freedom of educations n professions as equal as man , If they 're being ill-treated d could always report it 2 d kadi n could ask for justice such as fasah( divorce due 2 ill-treatment or irresponsible acts of d husband.) They 're in d higher ranking respected as a mother, sister, grandmother teachers, doctors, lawyers , engineers, scientists, ect.
What what ever high post they hold. at home, she is d WIFE 2 d husband not d 'Premier" of d house, these would end up in chaos 4 there're 2 captains in a ship, rite!.A wife may gives ideas but final decision must b made by one person collectively discussed with d wife.
For a jemaah prayer is a big embarresment if a lady Imam of a jemaah suddenly stops just 'cos of d period! So, Islam protects d face n d pride of a women not 2 b mocked at! rite!
Nowadays, if u take a stroll by d beach, 99 % of women are in bikinis! rite! some even dare 2 b naked taking 'sun-bath" . For men d aurah is only between d knee n d navel(that place is hidden n protected but now 2 b equal girls are exposing all . just one patch covered up n one patch covered down. Even with just a short man fells shy in front of women but girls now too much of just n liverations 've forgotten their reputations a sort of Modern Paganism of Moden Jahiliyyah! Whererest with d aurah closed as in d prayer except 4 d face n palms ; they are respected n honored. No man could make them as objects of fun, mockery n sex. These attitudes of shamless girls with d bikines didn't realised that they are calling rapes , inviting rapes 2 occur.
As for marrying 4 wifes. God said in surah Nisa" aya 3 n aya 129:
# " U will never b able 2 do perfect justice between wives, even it it is ur ardent desire"(Nisa: aya 129) n
"If u fear that u shall not b able 2 deal justly............then MARRY ONLY ONE( even though u may marry 2, 3 or 4) That will b nearer 2 prevent u fr. doing injustice" Unless if d wife is barren n asks d husband 2 marry another one having own siblings or doctor's advice not safe if pregnant, or during d times of war many women become widows , n d wife ask d husband 2 save d widows n their small kids n babies, or d wife could not cope up with d husband extra-ordinary intercourse needs n 2 avoid d hubby fr, committing zinah/adultery , d wife asks d husband 2 marry another one or d wife having sexual problems of d same situations , d wife should consider n face d facts of life while polygamy is permited i.e 2 avoid sins. But in a normal case, or normal situation no man can give justice 2 more than one wife n for that matter even with one wife , some husbands are irresponsible : drunketh, gambler, womanizer , no food at home , money spent on gamblings n liqour. n in some instances , d husband is so loving n responsible to 2 wives d latter better than d former! so, it's more on an individual capacity , cannot b wholesale!
But , nevertheless, one wife is best 'cos no husband could give justice as God said . So. it's more on d mutual understanding n capacity of both ; helps each other . considerate n amicable with a certain situation which differs fr. each women to another.Merchants n preachers(daie) travels from one continent 2 another eg. d Sayyeds(descendents of d prophets) n Gugeratees(Fr. India.Indian Muslims) n Arabs traders spread-out Islam 2 d Malay Achiepelogo thru' marriages with d locals n having wife in their country of origin n a local wife n they lived happily ever after . So , in certain cases it's quite
subjective! rite! Ofcourse , they 're very pious , sincere , honest n responsible in helping hands! rite!
But, d situation nowadays, one should b grateful if d husband is a 5 times prayer, loving, caring, fasting, not a gambler n not a womenizer is good enough! rite! many are hypocrates! n sinners! rite!
Lastly Y women cannot marry 4 like man! Where is equality! Initially if women could marry 4 like men do. Then, we 're back 2 paganism time or jahiliyyah ; where one women could b 4 sex object of many men , only thing is they 're 'married' . The question is if she's preagnant after 4 men slept with her then, d siblings will bear whose name as d father! Thus! women are protected n honoured in Islam. Thanks 2 God d savier of women as ordained in d Last Testament!(Al -Qur;an)
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Sincerely Urs,
Nash Ar-Rawy



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