Women In Islam by Nash Ar-Rawy

Women In Islam by Nash Ar-Rawy

No man and no women, who is more superior than the other. The prophet said There's no different amongst you , eventhough you are Arabs except for those who are takwa! (rejoin good deeds and abstain from evil deeds) In the eyes of the Almighty immaterial of a man or a woman , HE sees who is more in 'takwa'as portrayed by Fatimah , the prophet's daughter, Aaishah, the prophet 's wife and Aaishah; Pharoah 's wife and Mashitah being Pharoah's wife hair-dresser .
All mothers(surely women) from 9 months of hardships and labour when deliver babies; are all fantastic women and most honoured in Islam. During pre-Islamic era ( Paganism or Jahiliyyah) women were only made as slaves and sex objects and belly dances; their life is just to fulfil pagan men's lusts , that's all , They 've got no say at all and new born female babies were buried alife!!!
But, the Almighty has sent down prophet Muhammad peace be upon him to liberate the women and up-lifted them with great honour. No father could force the daughter to marry any one but with prior consent of the woman(daughter) Freedom of educations and professions as equal as man , If they 're being ill-treated, they could always report it to the “kadi” ( Religious Council ) and could ask for justice such as fasah( divorce due to ill-treatment or irresponsible acts of the husband.) They 're in the higher ranking and respected as mothers,sisters,grandmothers, teachers, doctors, lawyers , engineers, scientists, ect.
What ever high post she holds; at home, she is the WIFE to the husband not as the 'Premier" of the house. Because otherwise, it would end up in chaos for there're two captains in a ship, rite!.A wife may gives ideas but final decision must be made by one person collectivelydiscussed with the wife and children.
For a jemaah prayer is a big embarresment if a lady Imam of a jemaah prayer suddenly stops just 'because of the period comes. So, Islam protects the reputation and the pride of a women not to be mocked at.
Nowadays, if you take a stroll by the beach, 99 % of women are in bikinis! rite! Some even dare to be naked taking 'sun-bath" . For men d “aurah” is only between the knee and the navel(that place is hidden and protected but now to be equal as man; girls are exposing all . just one patch covered up n one patch covered down.
Even with just a short-pan;a man fells shy in front of women but girls now have gone too far with their liberations plights 've forgotten their reputations; a sort of Modern Paganism of Moden Jahiliyyah!
Whererest with the “aurah” closed as in the prayers except for the face and palms ; they are respected and honored. No man could make them as objects of fun, mockery and sex objects. These attitudes of shamless girls with the bikinis don’t realise that they are calling and , inviting rapes to occur.
As for marrying 4 wives. God said in surah Nisa" ayat 3 and ayat 129: "You will never be able to perform perfect justice between wives, eventhouigh it is your ardent desire"(Nisa: ayat 129) and
"If you fear that you would not be able to deal it justly............then MARRY ONLY ONE( even though you may marry 2, 3 or 4) That will be nearer to prevent you from. doing injustice" Unless if the wife is barren and asks the husband to marry another one having his own siblings or doctor's advice not safe if pregnant, or during the time of war many women became widows .
And the wife asks the husband to save the widows and their small kids and babies. Or the wife could not cope up with the husband extra-ordinary intercourse needs and to avoid the hubby from committing zinah/adultery . The wife asks the husband to marry another one. Or the wife having sexual problems of the above said situations Thewife should consider and face the facts of life while polygamy is permited in Islam i.e to avoid sins. But in a normal case, or normal situation no man can give justice to more than one wife and for that matter even with one wife , some husbands are irresponsible : drunketh, gambler, womanizer , no food at home , money spent on gamblings and liqour.
And in some instances , the husband is so loving and responsible to two wives and better than some monogamy cases. So, it's more on an individual capacity and subjective . Could not be taken wholesale!
But , nevertheless, one wife is the best because no husband could give justice to more than a single spouse as the Almighty said . So. it's more on the mutual understanding and the capacity of both ; helps each other . considerate and be amicable and the situation differs from each women to another.Merchants and preachers(daie) travel from one continent to another such as the Sayyeds(descendents of the prophet) and Gugeratees traders (From. India.; Indian Muslims) and Arabs traders spread-out Islam to the Malay Achiepelogo through marriages with the locals and having wife in their country of origin as well. And they lived happily ever after .
So , in certain cases it's quite subjective. Ofcourse , they 're very pious , sincere , honest and responsible and helping hands. But, the situation nowadays, one should be grateful if the husband is a five time prayer, loving, caring, fasting, not a gambler and not a womenizer is good enough!. Many are hypocrites! and sinners!
Lastly why women could not marry four as man does! Where is equality! Initially if women could marry more than one husband as man is. Then, we 're back to paganism time or jahiliyyah ; where one women could be for a sex object of many men . The question is if she's pregnant after four men slept with her. Then, the siblings will bear whose name as the father! Thus! women are protected and honoured in Islam. Thanks to the Almighty and his messenger as savier of women as ordained in d Last Testament!(Al -Qur;an) and to manknd and the world being blessed by Him with Islam ( “ Rahmatan lil ‘Alameen’ ).
Peace! Loves! Rejoice!(Wassalam)
By: Nash Ar-Rawy/14.04.12
From: nasharrawy.blogspot.com FOR: malaysiatimes.my/mediaperak.com