Arrawy's Articles: 01(Women In Islam)

i) No man and No women, who is more superior than d other! dear! D prophet said There's no different amongst u , eventhough u're Arabs except 4 takwa! (rejoin good deeds n abstain from evil deeds) In d eyes of God immaterial of man or woman , HE sees who is more in 'takwa' ii) Fatimah , d prophet's daughter, aaishah, d prophet 's wife n aaishah Pharoah 's wife, mashitah - pharoah's wife hair-dresser and all mothers(surely women) from 9 months of hardship n labour on delivered baby; thery 're all fantastic an most honoured by Islam. During pre-Islam ( Paganism or Jahiliyyah) women were only made as slaves n sex objects n bellies dances ; their life is just 2 fulfil pagans men's lusts , that's all , They 've got no say at all and new born female babies were buried alife!!!
But, God has sent down d prophets 2 liberate d women n up-lifted them with great honour. No father could force d daughter 2 marry any one but with prior consent of d woman(daughter) Freedom of educations n professions as equal as man , If they 're being ill-treated d could always report it 2 d kadi n could ask for justice such as fasah( divorce due 2 ill-treatment or irresponsible acts of d husband.) They 're in d higher ranking respected as a mother, sister, grandmother teachers, doctors, lawyers , engineers, scientists, ect.
What what ever high post they hold. at home, she is d WIFE 2 d husband not d 'Premier" of d house, these would end up in chaos 4 there're 2 captains in a ship, rite!.A wife may gives ideas but final decision must b made by one person collectively discussed with d wife.
For a jemaah prayer is a big embarresment if a lady Imam of a jemaah suddenly stops just 'cos of d period! So, Islam protects d face n d pride of a women not 2 b mocked at! rite!
Nowadays, if u take a stroll by d beach, 99 % of women are in bikinis! rite! some even dare 2 b naked taking 'sun-bath" . For men d aurah is only between d knee n d navel(that place is hidden n protected but now 2 b equal girls are exposing all . just one patch covered up n one patch covered down. Even with just a short man fells shy in front of women but girls now too much of just n liverations 've forgotten their reputations a sort of Modern Paganism of Moden Jahiliyyah! Whererest with d aurah closed as in d prayer except 4 d face n palms ; they are respected n honored. No man could make them as objects of fun, mockery n sex. These attitudes of shamless girls with d bikines didn't realised that they are calling rapes , inviting rapes 2 occur.
As for marrying 4 wifes. God said in surah Nisa" aya 3 n aya 129:
# " U will never b able 2 do perfect justice between wives, even it it is ur ardent desire"(Nisa: aya 129) n
"If u fear that u shall not b able 2 deal justly............then MARRY ONLY ONE( even though u may marry 2, 3 or 4) That will b nearer 2 prevent u fr. doing injustice" Unless if d wife is barren n asks d husband 2 marry another one having own siblings or doctor's advice not safe if pregnant, or during d times of war many women become widows , n d wife ask d husband 2 save d widows n their small kids n babies, or d wife could not cope up with d husband extra-ordinary intercourse needs n 2 avoid d hubby fr, committing zinah/adultery , d wife asks d husband 2 marry another one or d wife having sexual problems of d same situations , d wife should consider n face d facts of life while polygamy is permited i.e 2 avoid sins. But in a normal case, or normal situation no man can give justice 2 more than one wife n for that matter even with one wife , some husbands are irresponsible : drunketh, gambler, womanizer , no food at home , money spent on gamblings n liqour. n in some instances , d husband is so loving n responsible to 2 wives d latter better than d former! so, it's more on an individual capacity , cannot b wholesale!
But , nevertheless, one wife is best 'cos no husband could give justice as God said . So. it's more on d mutual understanding n capacity of both ; helps each other . considerate n amicable with a certain situation which differs fr. each women to another.Merchants n preachers(daie) travels from one continent 2 another eg. d Sayyeds(descendents of d prophets) n Gugeratees(Fr. India.Indian Muslims) n Arabs traders spread-out Islam 2 d Malay Achiepelogo thru' marriages with d locals n having wife in their country of origin n a local wife n they lived happily ever after . So , in certain cases it's quite
subjective! rite! Ofcourse , they 're very pious , sincere , honest n responsible in helping hands! rite!
But, d situation nowadays, one should b grateful if d husband is a 5 times prayer, loving, caring, fasting, not a gambler n not a womenizer is good enough! rite! many are hypocrates! n sinners! rite!
Lastly Y women cannot marry 4 like man! Where is equality! Initially if women could marry 4 like men do. Then, we 're back 2 paganism time or jahiliyyah ; where one women could b 4 sex object of many men , only thing is they 're 'married' . The question is if she's preagnant after 4 men slept with her then, d siblings will bear whose name as d father! Thus! women are protected n honoured in Islam. Thanks 2 God d savier of women as ordained in d Last Testament!(Al -Qur;an)
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Sincerely Urs,
Nash Ar-Rawy



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